David Wilkerson is the Founding Pastor of Times Square Church in New York City. He was called to New York in 1958 to minister to gang members and drug addicts, as told in the best-selling book, The Cross and the Switchblade.
In 1987, David Wilkerson returned to "the crossroads of the world" to establish Times Square Church. Since then, he has faithfully led this congregation, delivering powerful biblical messages that encourage righteous living and complete reliance on God.
following is a synopsis of a message he preached entitled "The Call to Anguish. listen to it, and be ready to be challenged.
If you like you can HEAR the entire message here;
http://www.worldchallenge.org/en/view/sermons?filter0=anguish&filter1=**ALL**&filter2=**ALL**&filter3=**ALL**&filter4=**ALL**&filter5=**ALL**
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Start with Why
There is a new book by Simon Sinek called 'Start With Why". His thesis is that leaders who have the natural ability to “start with why” have been able to inspire those around them to achieve remarkable things.
Sinek believes that most people or organizations begin with “what” and some even move to “how.” But few really know or communicate the “why” behind their cause.
So, why do we do what we do in the kingdom of heaven? Why do we go to church? Do we know the why?
Of course, you will probably tell me that the why is Jesus Christ. And I would agree with you. He is our hope, our salvation, our reason, our why. We should be empowered by that fact. He should be all that we need to leave our safety and comfort and do the irrational.
We should be ready to pick up our cross daily and follow him. But most of the time it is about us instead of him.
Below is Sinek’s TED talk about his book. Now, I'm not sure I agree with everything he says. But, I do think we spend too much time on the what and not enough on the why. Let me know what you think?
Sinek believes that most people or organizations begin with “what” and some even move to “how.” But few really know or communicate the “why” behind their cause.
So, why do we do what we do in the kingdom of heaven? Why do we go to church? Do we know the why?
Of course, you will probably tell me that the why is Jesus Christ. And I would agree with you. He is our hope, our salvation, our reason, our why. We should be empowered by that fact. He should be all that we need to leave our safety and comfort and do the irrational.
We should be ready to pick up our cross daily and follow him. But most of the time it is about us instead of him.
Below is Sinek’s TED talk about his book. Now, I'm not sure I agree with everything he says. But, I do think we spend too much time on the what and not enough on the why. Let me know what you think?
Thursday, May 5, 2011
And the Search for a Building Goes On...
Following is a brief synopsis of where we are in the search for a more permanent location.
As I stated in my last blog, we have expanded the search to areas outside the City of Poway. We are looking in industrial area's that are more favorable to churches. Mainly focused on those right off the I-15.
Some may wonder why I feel such an urge to find a more permanent location?
Here are a few reasons
1. We are sent to minister to people. which means we must take into account the cultural mindset and attitude of the people we are trying to reach. As I look around I see that people have gone from a growth oriented, risk taking, money spending, looking to upgrade, latest and greatest lifestyle to one that is much more cautious and reserved. People are looking for safety and security. They value consistency and permanence. I see that the culture is wanting stability more than anything else. Stability in their finances, employment, housing, relationships and lifestyles. i also feel they are looking for stability in the location of their church.
2. Because there is more financial and emotional tension that we are all living with. It is important that we maximize our time together by creating more service options instead of spending our man hours with set up/tear down. We need to spend our time serving, caring for and encouraging one another. Between all the man hours and money spent to set up for church, last Friday's, youth events, Sunday school, children's events, music practices and all the other activities that go on. It's no wonder that we don't have much left over to do the caring we all want and need in our church community.
3. We have the ability and the calling to do church at a much higher level. Not that a building by itself will make this happen. But, I sense the Holy Spirit calling us to more God centered activities and to do those activities with more excellence. A building will provide the means for us to do that.
4. The word I keep hearing in my spirit is CONVERSATIONS. And so I feel compelled by God to move in a direction that creates more opportunities for conversations to occur. I feel like God wants us to have more authentic and relational interactions. I feel like God wants us to spend the time we do have together creating a stronger and more connected community of believers. A building would help us do this more naturally and consistently.
So where are we in our search?
1. We have looked at, what was the Maranatha church building that is now owned by the Pomerado Health Group. We were looking to rent it on Sunday's like we do the school with the hope that we could leave things up and store things on the premises. This would greatly reduce our set up and tear down time and would eliminate our need to rent a truck and transport equipment every week. The issues are 1. When do they plan to tear the building down and begin their rebuilding? 2. Would they allow us to leave things up and store equipment on the premises? 3. What will the monthly cost be?
2. We located a building that was used by a church that was leasing 3 separate buildings. The one we are looking at was used for their offices. It is located right off the I-15, between Miramar Rd and Carrol Canyon Rd - 9770 Carroll Centre Rd
3. We looked into the possibility of moving schools because of the parking issues brought on by the baseball usage and the upcoming building of a temple on the vacant land above the school. The school that is available is Shoal Creek Elementary.
The one option that is looking the most promising is the permanent location off the I-15 - 9770 Carroll Centre Rd. I did some mileage calculations and here's what I found.
- From my house to the Carroll Centre property it will be 5.98 miles further than it is for me to travel to Pomerado elementary.
- For Chris Anderson it will be 6.82 miles further.
- For those coming North it will be 4.85 miles further.
- For those coming south it will be 6.22 miles shorter.
- For those coming from Ramona it is 6.47 miles further.
Just a quick synopsis of the building. It's around 6000 sq ft and will cost around $.95 per sq ft. It will take a little work to get it into the configuration we would want but the main things are already in. It has a men's and women's bathroom with 3 stalls in each. Air conditioning is already in throughout the building. We will be able to have around a 3000 sq ft auditorium with 14 ft ceilings. A nursery, kitchen, 2 offices, conf room and a 2nd large area for Sunday school of about 800 sq ft. I am presently talking with the city about updating the Conditional Use Permit.
As always, your comments and questions are welcomed.
God bless
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
The Search For A Building
We have been active in the process of obtaining a more permanent location for over 2 years. It began when we discovered and made a bid on the Daycare property across the street from Pomerado Elementary. We bid $600,000 with the condition that we would be able to obtain a Conditional Use Permit (CUP). The building sold for $475,000 to a guy who made a cash offer with no conditions. We later discovered in discussions with the Poway planning department that they would not have issued us a CUP on that property. So, we enlisted the help of a broker to locate every available building in poway that would fit the criteria we needed for our church. He came back with a list that showed three things.
Both of which are bad financial decisions. And so where do we go from here? Before we began this process I had told God I would exhaust every opportunity to stay within the city of Poway. But, if the door was clearly closed I would expand my search to area's outside the city of Poway.
- #1 There was not very much available. He found only 4 for lease. And only a few spots that we could possibly buy. (Here's the difficulty - finding a building big enough that also has the parking necessary to obtain a CUP)
- #2 All of the available properties were priced in the $2.00 - $3.00 per square foot price range with additional NNN costs of $.25- $.50. And all but one of these buildings were not interested in lowering their rates or interested in allowing a church into their building. Of those for sale, the price was either in the millions or the city informed us they would not allow us to obtain a CUP for various reasons -(slope, set backs, location, etc)
- #3 There was one building that had been vacant for five years and the owners seemed to be open to making a deal in the $1.50 per square foot total cost range. The deal included the owner putting in a substantial amount to get the building up to a condition that it could be used.
So in January of 2010 we entered into negotiations to lease this building which had been a former restaurant. That deal fell through in June of 2010 when in the owner changed his mind on his original monthly lease rate and raised it from $1.50 to $2.10
That process was a learning time for me personally. Up until that time we had never looked at or considered obtaining our own building. It showed me how much money it was really going to cost to get a facility into a condition that was suitable for church use and to pass the Conditional Use Permit Process.
From the restaurant deal, one of the contractors mentioned our story to one of our Poway City Councilmen. That Councilman invited us to begin the discussion of getting a Conditional Use Permit to lease space in the South Poway Business Park. The Business Park was enticing because the rates up there were in the $.70 - $1.00 total cost per square foot. So in November 2010 Chris Anderson and I met with Councilman Cunningham at the Hamburger Factory. He seemed willing and sympathetic to our cause. Chris also met with and had a discussion with Councilman Mullin. He to was willing and sympathetic to our cause. This direction seemed even more positive when we found a building and an owner that was willing to hold a space and go with us to obtain the necessary CUP.
That process was clearly denied in a meeting with the Poway Mayor and City Manager in March of 2011. They stated clearly that Poway was happy with it's current church strategy. Which is to only allow churches in a very limited amount of zones. And so it was stated by the mayor that we could either raise the needed funds to purchase or lease within those zones or look elsewhere outside the city of Poway. This meant the South Poway Business Park was no longer an option.
Here's the reality to obtain a facility within the City of Poway
To lease...
- Be willing to pay $12,000 - $20,000 per month in rental cost
- Plus, be willing to pay $100,000 - $250,000 to get a building up to conditions that a large group could use it. (build out restrooms, install A/C, etc)
- Be willing to pay rent for 4-8 months while we wait for the city of Poway to consider whether they will issue us a CUP
To Buy...
- Be willing to pay 3-5 million for the property, permits, plans and building cost
Both of which are bad financial decisions. And so where do we go from here? Before we began this process I had told God I would exhaust every opportunity to stay within the city of Poway. But, if the door was clearly closed I would expand my search to area's outside the city of Poway.
We have arrived at that point!
I'll write more on this process and where we are later. But, Know this church. I am in no way discouraged or beat down by all the seeming road blocks. All things work together for good, the Bible says. I continue to believe God has us in a good place and encourage you to keep on praying and standing on Gods word for his continued blessing upon us.
I would love to hear your comments and or questions.
God bless.
Pastor Robert
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
Systems
Our church watched a Andy Stanley message entitled “Liberating Your Organization: Creating a Leadership-Friendly Culture.” And it was very enlightening.
Here are a few “quotables” from the message and then I’ll give the main points of his teaching:
•“God created and runs the universe through systems.”
•“If you don’t approach problems systematically, you’ll blame people for problems that systems create.”
•“80% of your problems are not people problems; they are systems problems, because systems create behaviors.”
•“The mission statement is hanging on the wall. The systems are happening down the hall.”
•“Part of the hard work of diligent leadership is systems analysis.”
•“If a leader casts a new vision and never addresses old systems, nothing changes.” - "Vision needs systems.”
Some teaching points of Andy’s session:
•Systems are your organization’s approach to getting things done. (In other words, systems answer the question, “How do we get this done?”)
•Systems create behaviors. Andy said, “Talks don’t create behaviors. Cool environments don’t create behaviors. Systems create behaviors.”
•“The systems you inherit, adopt, or create will eventually impact what staff and volunteers do.”
Five components of a system:
•Expectations (rules) – what do we expect our people to do? How do we expect them to act?
•Rewards (or lack of) – how do we intentionally affirm behaviors that are aligned with our expectations?
•Consequences (or lack of) – what happens when people fail to meet the organizational expectations or the expectations of their particular role?
•Communication (content and style) – how do we communicate our expectations, the purpose for those expectations (i.e. our mission and vision), and the rewards/consequences? Who knows what, when, and how and what behaviors are expected as a result of knowing?
•Behaviors (of those in charge) – are the leaders modeling the organizational values? Are their behaviors consistent with the organizational expectations?
Four system imperatives:
•Your system should allow you to involve and hire the best person for the job.
•You system should allow you to get the right people to the table.
•Your system should allow you to make complex decisions within the context of a small group of empowered people.
•Your system should ensure that only one person answers to “They.” (That person should, in most cases, be the top leader.)
I’ve been talking with a lot of pastors/leaders lately about the place and value of systems. And I hope to begin the process of evaluating the systems in our local church. I close with this - Andy’s talk is confirming a lot of good and right principles relative to systems… particularly within the church.
Here are a few “quotables” from the message and then I’ll give the main points of his teaching:
•“God created and runs the universe through systems.”
•“If you don’t approach problems systematically, you’ll blame people for problems that systems create.”
•“80% of your problems are not people problems; they are systems problems, because systems create behaviors.”
•“The mission statement is hanging on the wall. The systems are happening down the hall.”
•“Part of the hard work of diligent leadership is systems analysis.”
•“If a leader casts a new vision and never addresses old systems, nothing changes.” - "Vision needs systems.”
Some teaching points of Andy’s session:
•Systems are your organization’s approach to getting things done. (In other words, systems answer the question, “How do we get this done?”)
•Systems create behaviors. Andy said, “Talks don’t create behaviors. Cool environments don’t create behaviors. Systems create behaviors.”
•“The systems you inherit, adopt, or create will eventually impact what staff and volunteers do.”
Five components of a system:
•Expectations (rules) – what do we expect our people to do? How do we expect them to act?
•Rewards (or lack of) – how do we intentionally affirm behaviors that are aligned with our expectations?
•Consequences (or lack of) – what happens when people fail to meet the organizational expectations or the expectations of their particular role?
•Communication (content and style) – how do we communicate our expectations, the purpose for those expectations (i.e. our mission and vision), and the rewards/consequences? Who knows what, when, and how and what behaviors are expected as a result of knowing?
•Behaviors (of those in charge) – are the leaders modeling the organizational values? Are their behaviors consistent with the organizational expectations?
Four system imperatives:
•Your system should allow you to involve and hire the best person for the job.
•You system should allow you to get the right people to the table.
•Your system should allow you to make complex decisions within the context of a small group of empowered people.
•Your system should ensure that only one person answers to “They.” (That person should, in most cases, be the top leader.)
I’ve been talking with a lot of pastors/leaders lately about the place and value of systems. And I hope to begin the process of evaluating the systems in our local church. I close with this - Andy’s talk is confirming a lot of good and right principles relative to systems… particularly within the church.
Friday, January 21, 2011
Four False Ideas That Destroy Leaders
Perry Noble recently shared this on his blog and I wanted to share with you! Check out his blog too!
#1 – “I Cannot…”
One of the things that seems to be appearing over and over again to me as I read the Scriptures is this thought…
At the end of the day…I am a servant of the Most High God! AND…a servant can do EXACTLY what his master has commanded him to do because he is operating under the power and authority of the One who called, equipped and empowered him to serve in the first place.
You can do EXACTLY what God called you to do!!! Don’t back down!
#2 – “I Am Not As Good As…”
Comparing yourself to other ministers and/or ministries is one of the quickest ways to go insane and completely lose your focus on who God is and what He has called you to do.
We should learn from “them” but focus on “HIM!”
There will always be someone who does something better than you! Your call isn’t to imitate people but to focus on Christ!!!
#3 – “I Failed Before”
Of course you did!!!
All great leaders have failed at something significant!
However, what makes them great is that they do not allow their failures to define them. They pick up the pieces and move forward. They learn lessons from their failure…if there was a sin issue involved they repent and submit to Jesus and the leadership of others…and then they get on with life!!!
Peter failed! Remember when he tried to cut off the servants ear and had to be rebuked by Jesus!!! YET when it came to Acts 2 and the day of Pentecost he was the guy who Jesus anointed to preach the Gospel and see over 3k new believers!
#4 – “All Hope Is Gone”
Uh…the only problem with that thought is THE TOMB IS EMPTY…and as long as that is a reality then there is always hope…ALWAYS!
I know some reading this feel like you are just about at the end of your rope…but from my personal experience I’ve discovered when I do get to the end of my rope Jesus is always there saying, “what took you so long?”
Losing hope can bring about times of intense desperation…but quite often intense desperation leads to undeniable revelation!!! When we lose hope and believe that things are just about over…well…that’s always a time for God to remind us of WHO HE IS and what He is capable of!
#1 – “I Cannot…”
One of the things that seems to be appearing over and over again to me as I read the Scriptures is this thought…
At the end of the day…I am a servant of the Most High God! AND…a servant can do EXACTLY what his master has commanded him to do because he is operating under the power and authority of the One who called, equipped and empowered him to serve in the first place.
You can do EXACTLY what God called you to do!!! Don’t back down!
#2 – “I Am Not As Good As…”
Comparing yourself to other ministers and/or ministries is one of the quickest ways to go insane and completely lose your focus on who God is and what He has called you to do.
We should learn from “them” but focus on “HIM!”
There will always be someone who does something better than you! Your call isn’t to imitate people but to focus on Christ!!!
#3 – “I Failed Before”
Of course you did!!!
All great leaders have failed at something significant!
However, what makes them great is that they do not allow their failures to define them. They pick up the pieces and move forward. They learn lessons from their failure…if there was a sin issue involved they repent and submit to Jesus and the leadership of others…and then they get on with life!!!
Peter failed! Remember when he tried to cut off the servants ear and had to be rebuked by Jesus!!! YET when it came to Acts 2 and the day of Pentecost he was the guy who Jesus anointed to preach the Gospel and see over 3k new believers!
#4 – “All Hope Is Gone”
Uh…the only problem with that thought is THE TOMB IS EMPTY…and as long as that is a reality then there is always hope…ALWAYS!
I know some reading this feel like you are just about at the end of your rope…but from my personal experience I’ve discovered when I do get to the end of my rope Jesus is always there saying, “what took you so long?”
Losing hope can bring about times of intense desperation…but quite often intense desperation leads to undeniable revelation!!! When we lose hope and believe that things are just about over…well…that’s always a time for God to remind us of WHO HE IS and what He is capable of!
Thursday, November 25, 2010
Tis The Season...
Here we go folks, it's that time of year again! This year lets live it and experience it with contentment and thankfullness. Tis the season JESUS is the reason.
Jim Wallis wrote, in part, the following thought and I thought it was worth re-stating.
The political ads are finally off the air. (We can all give thanks for that!) But now there is a new wave of advertisements hitting all of us. Each one will give us a different reason to consume. Each one will put pressure on us to show our love, compassion, and thankfulness through buying more stuff with money we don't have on things we probably don't need. I've already heard a barrage of commercials on TV and radio telling me that I don't even have to wait for Black Friday to start my spending this year. "Those who care, consume," they say.
That message is clear -- and clearly wrong.
The pervasiveness of our consumer culture has been met with some backlash. "Buy Nothing Day" has grown into movement that competes with the sometimes deadly crowds of "Black Friday." "The Advent Conspiracy" has challenged Christians to take Advent as an opportunity to show the world the compassion of Christ and not be conformed to the consumptive patterns of the world.
The relentless pressure of advertising tells us that "there is never enough," and that you should "worry" constantly about what you eat and drink, what you wear, whether your future is secure, and more. But Jesus says the exact opposite. They say, "Worry all the time!" But Christ says, "Don't worry!"
The pressure we feel doesn't just come from the ads we get in our inboxes or see on television. All of us have family and friends who are going to be doing a lot of shopping. If a friend goes out and spends money on us, we feel guilty if we don't reciprocate at roughly the same level. What's worse is if someone gets us a gift and we don't get them anything at all. The problem is not giving gifts. Giving gifts becomes a problem when the exchange of stuff replaces building relationships.
How should we respond to these pressures during this season? Here are a few thoughts:
First, try and make decisions about gift giving with friends and family. Get everybody on the same page before all the spending happens. You could try sending around this column to get the conversation going. Your values, not commercials, should inform how you show your gratefulness to those you love.
Second, try some alternative gift giving this year. find a charity or a good cause that you can give time or money to. There are many businesses and non-profits that are committed to a mission that makes sure each dollar you give or spend has a positive impact on the world.
And finally, as we think about Thanksgiving and look forward to Christmas, let's take stock of our lives and priorities and make sure they are being driven by our values and relationships and not just our culture of consumption.
Jim Wallis wrote, in part, the following thought and I thought it was worth re-stating.
The political ads are finally off the air. (We can all give thanks for that!) But now there is a new wave of advertisements hitting all of us. Each one will give us a different reason to consume. Each one will put pressure on us to show our love, compassion, and thankfulness through buying more stuff with money we don't have on things we probably don't need. I've already heard a barrage of commercials on TV and radio telling me that I don't even have to wait for Black Friday to start my spending this year. "Those who care, consume," they say.
That message is clear -- and clearly wrong.
The pervasiveness of our consumer culture has been met with some backlash. "Buy Nothing Day" has grown into movement that competes with the sometimes deadly crowds of "Black Friday." "The Advent Conspiracy" has challenged Christians to take Advent as an opportunity to show the world the compassion of Christ and not be conformed to the consumptive patterns of the world.
The relentless pressure of advertising tells us that "there is never enough," and that you should "worry" constantly about what you eat and drink, what you wear, whether your future is secure, and more. But Jesus says the exact opposite. They say, "Worry all the time!" But Christ says, "Don't worry!"
The pressure we feel doesn't just come from the ads we get in our inboxes or see on television. All of us have family and friends who are going to be doing a lot of shopping. If a friend goes out and spends money on us, we feel guilty if we don't reciprocate at roughly the same level. What's worse is if someone gets us a gift and we don't get them anything at all. The problem is not giving gifts. Giving gifts becomes a problem when the exchange of stuff replaces building relationships.
How should we respond to these pressures during this season? Here are a few thoughts:
First, try and make decisions about gift giving with friends and family. Get everybody on the same page before all the spending happens. You could try sending around this column to get the conversation going. Your values, not commercials, should inform how you show your gratefulness to those you love.
Second, try some alternative gift giving this year. find a charity or a good cause that you can give time or money to. There are many businesses and non-profits that are committed to a mission that makes sure each dollar you give or spend has a positive impact on the world.
And finally, as we think about Thanksgiving and look forward to Christmas, let's take stock of our lives and priorities and make sure they are being driven by our values and relationships and not just our culture of consumption.
Thursday, November 4, 2010
He Made You
Michael Josephson, Who is the founder of the Josephson Institute wrote this compelling article.
He made You
As Lily Tomlin said, "No matter how cynical I get, I can't keep up."
Our economy has been shattered by widespread corporate fraud; kids lie, steal, and cheat at unprecedented rates; and their parents beat up each other or referees at youth sports events or supply alcohol to fuel organized hazing. Our confidence in the integrity of journalistic institutions, the accounting profession, stockbrokers, college sports, organized religion, and business in general is continually shaken by a relentless barrage of shameful behavior.
It's tempting to throw up our hands in despair and surrender to cynicism.
It reminds me of the tale of the pious young man whose car broke down on his way to his place of worship. He had to walk through an area where homeless people huddled against buildings for warmth, alcoholics and mentally ill adults wandered the streets, and crack dealers sold drugs to kids. He was overcome with a sense of despondency and doubt about the power and intentions of God.
"God," he prayed, "how can you allow all this pain and misery and do nothing?" Receiving no answer, he became frustrated and raised his voice, "Lord, my faith is at issue! How can you allow all this suffering and do nothing?"
Then someone behind him whispered, "He didn't do nothing. He made you."
What a profound insight and daunting responsibility it is to realize that you are the instrument of reform, that your courage, compassion, and creativity in your own sphere of influence can set into motion a ripple effect of healing actions and attitudes to make a better world.
This is Michael Josephson reminding you that character counts.
Thursday, October 28, 2010
Truth and Civility
While I don't agree with everything every Christian believes and writes about. I do believe we have to show the world we know how to stand together and work together until we all come into the unity of the faith (Ephesians 4:13).
One place we need to discover truth and civility again is in the political marketplace. There is so much negaitivity and divisive words thrown around so carelessly it's hurts my heart.
Jim Wallis is a Christian writer who has taken stances that sometimes I agree with and other times I disagree with. But, this is one stance I'm whole heartily behind
https://secure3.convio.net/sojo/site/Advocacy?cmd=display&page=UserAction&id=355
What do you think?
One place we need to discover truth and civility again is in the political marketplace. There is so much negaitivity and divisive words thrown around so carelessly it's hurts my heart.
Jim Wallis is a Christian writer who has taken stances that sometimes I agree with and other times I disagree with. But, this is one stance I'm whole heartily behind
https://secure3.convio.net/sojo/site/Advocacy?cmd=display&page=UserAction&id=355
What do you think?
Thursday, October 21, 2010
Finishers
In the story of Nehemiah and the people of Israel, God called them to rebuild a wall. And at first the job seemed overwhelming. But, with God’s help they began to believe it was possible. And so 52 days after they began Nehemiah 6:15-16 says this
Nehemiah 6:15-16 (NLT)
15 So on October 2 the wall was finished—just fifty-two days after we had begun. 16 When our enemies and the surrounding nations heard about it, they were frightened and humiliated. They realized this work had been done with the help of our God.
That is a verse that God wants to be true in the lives of all his followers. God is looking for people who hear him and follow him. People who trust him to help them finish what He has called them to do. People who stay radically committed in the areas of life that matter most.
So let me ask you: What is the insurmountable task that is in front of you that you know God has called you to finish? Because, if you can identify it and rise up in faith and start doing that one thing that God has called you to do - you can finish it!
And boy doesn't our world need more finishers.
Nehemiah 6:15-16 (NLT)
15 So on October 2 the wall was finished—just fifty-two days after we had begun. 16 When our enemies and the surrounding nations heard about it, they were frightened and humiliated. They realized this work had been done with the help of our God.
That is a verse that God wants to be true in the lives of all his followers. God is looking for people who hear him and follow him. People who trust him to help them finish what He has called them to do. People who stay radically committed in the areas of life that matter most.
So let me ask you: What is the insurmountable task that is in front of you that you know God has called you to finish? Because, if you can identify it and rise up in faith and start doing that one thing that God has called you to do - you can finish it!
And boy doesn't our world need more finishers.
Thursday, October 14, 2010
The Local Church Is...
The local church is the hope of the world.
There is nothing like the local church when it’s working right. Its beauty is indescribable. Its power is breathtaking. Its potential is unlimited. It comforts the grieving and heals the broken in the context of community. It builds bridges to seekers and offers truth to the confused. It provides resources for those in need and opens its arms to the forgotten, the downtrodden, the disillusioned. It breaks the chains of addictions, frees the oppressed, and offers belonging to the marginalized of this world. Whatever the capacity for human suffering, the church has a greater capacity for healing and wholeness.
Still to this day, the potential of the local church is almost more than I can grasp. No other organization on earth is like the church. Nothing even comes close.
~ from Bill Hybels’ Courageous Leadership
_________________
Thoughts?
There is nothing like the local church when it’s working right. Its beauty is indescribable. Its power is breathtaking. Its potential is unlimited. It comforts the grieving and heals the broken in the context of community. It builds bridges to seekers and offers truth to the confused. It provides resources for those in need and opens its arms to the forgotten, the downtrodden, the disillusioned. It breaks the chains of addictions, frees the oppressed, and offers belonging to the marginalized of this world. Whatever the capacity for human suffering, the church has a greater capacity for healing and wholeness.
Still to this day, the potential of the local church is almost more than I can grasp. No other organization on earth is like the church. Nothing even comes close.
~ from Bill Hybels’ Courageous Leadership
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Thoughts?
Friday, March 26, 2010
Breaking Free
Jesus made a staggering promise about his ability to transform human lives when He said this;
John 8:36 (KJV)
If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.
That is an incredible promise and an incredible opportunity that is available to all of us. The question is - Do you feel like your relationship with God has made you FREE? Do you feel like you are FREE?
For many Christians that's a hard question to answer because they have no idea what Christian freedom really looks like. And that a problem because if you don’t know the kind of freedom Jesus came to bring, you will only EXPERIENCE the kind of freedom people tell you can have or the kind of freedom you come up with in your own mind. And you will find yourself PURSUING that kind of freedom, most often in a religious way.
Religious ways like; human effort, self discipline, traditions and rituals, a list of do’s and don’ts, by trying harder or denying greater, doing more or disciplining more and the list could go on and on.
But you’ll never feel FREE. You’ll feel saved, maybe. You’ll feel like you’re better than others. You’ll feel good about yourself when YOU achieve, when YOU work, when YOU accomplish and follow the list. You'll feel judgemental of those who are not like you. But, you’ll never feel the freedom Jesus talked about in John 8:36.
So how do we get the focus back on the freedom that Jesus came to bring? I believe it will only happen when we come alive on the inside.
Somehow we start right, we start by pursuing and experiencing the power of the Holy Spirit. But then the focus shifts to our outward human efforts and the outward holiness requirements of the church. And this gets our focus off of the freedom that Jesus wants to lead us into.
Galatians 3:3 (CEV)
How can you be so stupid? Do you think that by yourself you can complete what God's Spirit started in you?
You can’t achieve the freedom Jesus came to bring through following a set of rules, through more discipline, through more human effort, through a positive mental attitude. You can only experience it one way - through coming and saying alive to the Holy Spirit which is in you.
Can you read the following passage and see Gods desire for you to come alive to His Spirit? Or do you focus more attention on what YOU need to do?
Romans 6:11-14 (NLT)
11 So you also should consider yourselves to be dead to the power of sin and alive to God through Christ Jesus.
12 Do not let sin control the way you live; do not give in to sinful desires.
13 Do not let any part of your body become an instrument of evil to serve sin. Instead, give yourselves completely to God, for you were dead, but now you have new life. So use your whole body as an instrument to do what is right for the glory of God.
Your answer, if you are honest with yourself, is the key to you breaking free and beginning to live in the freedom that Jesus promised you.
John 8:36 (KJV)
If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.
That is an incredible promise and an incredible opportunity that is available to all of us. The question is - Do you feel like your relationship with God has made you FREE? Do you feel like you are FREE?
For many Christians that's a hard question to answer because they have no idea what Christian freedom really looks like. And that a problem because if you don’t know the kind of freedom Jesus came to bring, you will only EXPERIENCE the kind of freedom people tell you can have or the kind of freedom you come up with in your own mind. And you will find yourself PURSUING that kind of freedom, most often in a religious way.
Religious ways like; human effort, self discipline, traditions and rituals, a list of do’s and don’ts, by trying harder or denying greater, doing more or disciplining more and the list could go on and on.
But you’ll never feel FREE. You’ll feel saved, maybe. You’ll feel like you’re better than others. You’ll feel good about yourself when YOU achieve, when YOU work, when YOU accomplish and follow the list. You'll feel judgemental of those who are not like you. But, you’ll never feel the freedom Jesus talked about in John 8:36.
So how do we get the focus back on the freedom that Jesus came to bring? I believe it will only happen when we come alive on the inside.
Somehow we start right, we start by pursuing and experiencing the power of the Holy Spirit. But then the focus shifts to our outward human efforts and the outward holiness requirements of the church. And this gets our focus off of the freedom that Jesus wants to lead us into.
Galatians 3:3 (CEV)
How can you be so stupid? Do you think that by yourself you can complete what God's Spirit started in you?
You can’t achieve the freedom Jesus came to bring through following a set of rules, through more discipline, through more human effort, through a positive mental attitude. You can only experience it one way - through coming and saying alive to the Holy Spirit which is in you.
Can you read the following passage and see Gods desire for you to come alive to His Spirit? Or do you focus more attention on what YOU need to do?
Romans 6:11-14 (NLT)
11 So you also should consider yourselves to be dead to the power of sin and alive to God through Christ Jesus.
12 Do not let sin control the way you live; do not give in to sinful desires.
13 Do not let any part of your body become an instrument of evil to serve sin. Instead, give yourselves completely to God, for you were dead, but now you have new life. So use your whole body as an instrument to do what is right for the glory of God.
Your answer, if you are honest with yourself, is the key to you breaking free and beginning to live in the freedom that Jesus promised you.
Friday, February 12, 2010
Soft addictions and vices
We will be starting a new sermon series at our church entitled "Breaking Free". And the aim will be to not just break free FROM things but to break free INTO better things.
I believe that's what Jesus came to do - to set us free FROM things and set us free to step INTO better things
So I'm studying the facts and points for the first message and an incredible thing happened to me.
I'm looking at all the things we need to be set free from - some of them big like alcohol, pornography and anger. While others are soft like gambling and over-working and debt. And what I noticed is this. There are levels or types of each of these addictions and vices that people partake in. And as long as you do them at a low level then society kind of winks at it.
Take for instance gambling. it spans from Bingo to Bookies, from the Lottery to the casinos. And for the most part if you keep it on the "soft" side then it seems to be OK.
Even the church struggles to challenge people to heavily in the low, soft levels of any one of the hundreds of vices and addictions. And as I asked myself why, here's what I discovered was true for me. I was reticent to address the topic because I didn't have a Bible verse or a clear principle to challenge with. But, the real answer that I feel the Lord challenged me with was this: I was intimidated to challenge and loving confront issues in others peoples lives because I had some soft, low level ones in my own life
That has to change. We cannot sit around and let all the low, soft vices, addictions and weights slow us down. We have to open up our hearts and lives to be set free from them and set free to experience better things
It's like the Lord is opening up my eyes to this in my own life. I'll be talking about them during this series so I hope you can make it. But, here's one of the experiences I've had this week...
I'm in the office looking at all the levels of destructive addictions and vices and I'm working on pornography and I notice that there is soft porn and hard core porn. There is visual porn (pictures) and written porn (books). So I'm looking on the Internet at what "SOFT" porn is. And it goes from seemingly harmless to borderline destructive pictures and words and while I'm viewing what soft porn is a guy walks by. And in my heart I wondered if he saw what I was doing? But, regardless I felt like in that moment the Lord said to me. That is how the devil works to keep us all bound and small in our walk with God. It's not the big stuff that destroys us it's the little, innocent, soft area's that keep us limited
How many area's of our lives are filled with "SOFT" addictions and vices? How many times do we throw people off the path of righteousness because our lives are not a clear reflection of freedom? How many people do we neglect to challenge or encourage in a "grey" area because we have shades of gray in our
For me I want to be set free to pursue righteousness and holiness will you join me? If so I hope to see you during this sermon series.
I believe that's what Jesus came to do - to set us free FROM things and set us free to step INTO better things
So I'm studying the facts and points for the first message and an incredible thing happened to me.
I'm looking at all the things we need to be set free from - some of them big like alcohol, pornography and anger. While others are soft like gambling and over-working and debt. And what I noticed is this. There are levels or types of each of these addictions and vices that people partake in. And as long as you do them at a low level then society kind of winks at it.
Take for instance gambling. it spans from Bingo to Bookies, from the Lottery to the casinos. And for the most part if you keep it on the "soft" side then it seems to be OK.
Even the church struggles to challenge people to heavily in the low, soft levels of any one of the hundreds of vices and addictions. And as I asked myself why, here's what I discovered was true for me. I was reticent to address the topic because I didn't have a Bible verse or a clear principle to challenge with. But, the real answer that I feel the Lord challenged me with was this: I was intimidated to challenge and loving confront issues in others peoples lives because I had some soft, low level ones in my own life
That has to change. We cannot sit around and let all the low, soft vices, addictions and weights slow us down. We have to open up our hearts and lives to be set free from them and set free to experience better things
It's like the Lord is opening up my eyes to this in my own life. I'll be talking about them during this series so I hope you can make it. But, here's one of the experiences I've had this week...
I'm in the office looking at all the levels of destructive addictions and vices and I'm working on pornography and I notice that there is soft porn and hard core porn. There is visual porn (pictures) and written porn (books). So I'm looking on the Internet at what "SOFT" porn is. And it goes from seemingly harmless to borderline destructive pictures and words and while I'm viewing what soft porn is a guy walks by. And in my heart I wondered if he saw what I was doing? But, regardless I felt like in that moment the Lord said to me. That is how the devil works to keep us all bound and small in our walk with God. It's not the big stuff that destroys us it's the little, innocent, soft area's that keep us limited
How many area's of our lives are filled with "SOFT" addictions and vices? How many times do we throw people off the path of righteousness because our lives are not a clear reflection of freedom? How many people do we neglect to challenge or encourage in a "grey" area because we have shades of gray in our
For me I want to be set free to pursue righteousness and holiness will you join me? If so I hope to see you during this sermon series.
Saturday, December 5, 2009
Wisdom for Making Decisions
In a recent message by Any Stanley entitled -"When Opportunity Knocks", The following incredible points were made
1. You leadership ability has the potential to take you further than your character can SUSTAIN you.
2. Leaders get into trouble when their integrity doesn't keep pace with the momentum created by their GIFTEDNESS. There is no correlation between giftedness and maturity!
3. Our commitment to integrity can easily be eroded by our desire for PROGRESS.
4. Watch out for the excuses we are most tempted to use to convince ourselves to do the wrong thing: "God PROMISED it to me" or "I DESERVE it".
The point is, sometimes opportunities present themselves and they look like the makings of a God thing. They look like God opening a door of opportunity for us. And in those moments, only pre-determined principles, pre-understood laws and pre-accepted accountability will guide us. Because in those moments our desires and our plans can cause us to bypass Gods laws and Gods principles in our rush to receive Gods promises. Here are a few bits of wisdom for those times:
1. Everything that looks like a God thing, and feels like a God thing, and is suggested by others as a God thing isn't necessarily a God thing.
2. The most direct route to what you want is rarely the BEST route.
Here is a list of wise steps to take each time a major decision is before you
1. Weigh every opportunity against the laws, principles, and wisdom of God.
2. Decide every day that you will not sacrifice integrity for progress.
3. Give the right people an all access pass to EVERY major decision. Being mature in God does not exempt you from the need for wise counsel. It NECESSITATES it.
Prov 3:1-15 (NLT)
1My child, never forget the things I have taught you. Store my commands in your heart,
2 for they will give you a long and satisfying life.
3 Never let loyalty and kindness get away from you! Wear them like a necklace; write them deep within your heart.
4 Then you will find favor with both God and people, and you will gain a good reputation.
5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding.
6 Seek his will in all you do, and he will direct your paths.
7 Don't be impressed with your own wisdom. Instead, fear the LORD and turn your back on evil.
8 Then you will gain renewed health and vitality.
9 Honor the LORD with your wealth and with the best part of everything your land produces. 10 Then he will fill your barns with grain, and your vats will overflow with the finest wine.
11 My child, don't ignore it when the LORD disciplines you, and don't be discouraged when he corrects you.
12 For the LORD corrects those he loves, just as a father corrects a child in whom he delights.
13 Happy is the person who finds wisdom and gains understanding.
14 For the profit of wisdom is better than silver, and her wages are better than gold.
15 Wisdom is more precious than rubies; nothing you desire can compare with her.
1. You leadership ability has the potential to take you further than your character can SUSTAIN you.
2. Leaders get into trouble when their integrity doesn't keep pace with the momentum created by their GIFTEDNESS. There is no correlation between giftedness and maturity!
3. Our commitment to integrity can easily be eroded by our desire for PROGRESS.
4. Watch out for the excuses we are most tempted to use to convince ourselves to do the wrong thing: "God PROMISED it to me" or "I DESERVE it".
The point is, sometimes opportunities present themselves and they look like the makings of a God thing. They look like God opening a door of opportunity for us. And in those moments, only pre-determined principles, pre-understood laws and pre-accepted accountability will guide us. Because in those moments our desires and our plans can cause us to bypass Gods laws and Gods principles in our rush to receive Gods promises. Here are a few bits of wisdom for those times:
1. Everything that looks like a God thing, and feels like a God thing, and is suggested by others as a God thing isn't necessarily a God thing.
2. The most direct route to what you want is rarely the BEST route.
Here is a list of wise steps to take each time a major decision is before you
1. Weigh every opportunity against the laws, principles, and wisdom of God.
2. Decide every day that you will not sacrifice integrity for progress.
3. Give the right people an all access pass to EVERY major decision. Being mature in God does not exempt you from the need for wise counsel. It NECESSITATES it.
Prov 3:1-15 (NLT)
1My child, never forget the things I have taught you. Store my commands in your heart,
2 for they will give you a long and satisfying life.
3 Never let loyalty and kindness get away from you! Wear them like a necklace; write them deep within your heart.
4 Then you will find favor with both God and people, and you will gain a good reputation.
5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding.
6 Seek his will in all you do, and he will direct your paths.
7 Don't be impressed with your own wisdom. Instead, fear the LORD and turn your back on evil.
8 Then you will gain renewed health and vitality.
9 Honor the LORD with your wealth and with the best part of everything your land produces. 10 Then he will fill your barns with grain, and your vats will overflow with the finest wine.
11 My child, don't ignore it when the LORD disciplines you, and don't be discouraged when he corrects you.
12 For the LORD corrects those he loves, just as a father corrects a child in whom he delights.
13 Happy is the person who finds wisdom and gains understanding.
14 For the profit of wisdom is better than silver, and her wages are better than gold.
15 Wisdom is more precious than rubies; nothing you desire can compare with her.
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
The Right Response
Life has a way of bringing the best or the worst out of us. We've heard that phrase repeated so often it's almost lost it's effect and power to make us stop and ponder. But it true. Unforeseen difficulties or blessing could be just around the corner. Circumstances can turn in an instant, whether for good or bad. situations can seemingly hit us from out of no where. And in those moments there may be responses that come out of us that we didn't even know were in us. For some the downside of life produces this reality. For others, it's the abundance of blessings that invade their soul and steal their heart and warp their clarity of what matters most.
So how can one really be ready?
The answer begins in the place that we intrinsically know but, outwardly downplay. The answer lies in the strength and depth of our faith. No, not the "I believe in God" kind of faith, although that is good and needful. Not the religious kind of faith that is more a list of things you do or don't do, and that is good and needful as well.
The kind of faith I'm talking about is at the core of who we are. It's deep and foundational. It's the kind of faith that is revealed to US in responses that show our confidence, attitude, trust, courage and contentment. It's the kind of faith that is shown to the WORLD in things like actions, words, and disposition.
It's the kind of faith that is not based on what is going on around you. It's the kind of faith that is based on what you believe about God and eternity way down deep in your heart and soul. It's the kind of faith that is born out of seeing God for who He is and seeing yourself in His plans.
This is what makes Hebrews chapter 11 such a relevant list of stories for all of us to read. Because, It's an example of right responses by ordinary people who had life throw them some radical curves. It's an example of men and women who had such a clear view of God's will and calling on their life that what happened to them outwardly didn't shake their faith inwardly. Their faith was based on seeing something that was much more relevant and powerful than what they could see with their natural eyes. And what they saw produced confidence, trust, courage and contentment in them. What they saw caused them to live and respond to life differently than others.
So where does that kind of faith come from?
Thanks for asking, I hope through reading this blog that God has stirred up a desire inside of you to want to know Him in such a real way that faith is produced inside of you that is stronger and deeper than what is going on presently in your life. If so, the answer is found in Hebrews Chapter 12
Why don't you take a few moments and read that chapter and see what it is that God's word will reveal to you.
Hebrews 12:28 (NKJV)
Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom which cannot be shaken, let us have grace, by which we may serve God acceptably with reverence and godly fear.
So how can one really be ready?
The answer begins in the place that we intrinsically know but, outwardly downplay. The answer lies in the strength and depth of our faith. No, not the "I believe in God" kind of faith, although that is good and needful. Not the religious kind of faith that is more a list of things you do or don't do, and that is good and needful as well.
The kind of faith I'm talking about is at the core of who we are. It's deep and foundational. It's the kind of faith that is revealed to US in responses that show our confidence, attitude, trust, courage and contentment. It's the kind of faith that is shown to the WORLD in things like actions, words, and disposition.
It's the kind of faith that is not based on what is going on around you. It's the kind of faith that is based on what you believe about God and eternity way down deep in your heart and soul. It's the kind of faith that is born out of seeing God for who He is and seeing yourself in His plans.
This is what makes Hebrews chapter 11 such a relevant list of stories for all of us to read. Because, It's an example of right responses by ordinary people who had life throw them some radical curves. It's an example of men and women who had such a clear view of God's will and calling on their life that what happened to them outwardly didn't shake their faith inwardly. Their faith was based on seeing something that was much more relevant and powerful than what they could see with their natural eyes. And what they saw produced confidence, trust, courage and contentment in them. What they saw caused them to live and respond to life differently than others.
So where does that kind of faith come from?
Thanks for asking, I hope through reading this blog that God has stirred up a desire inside of you to want to know Him in such a real way that faith is produced inside of you that is stronger and deeper than what is going on presently in your life. If so, the answer is found in Hebrews Chapter 12
Why don't you take a few moments and read that chapter and see what it is that God's word will reveal to you.
Hebrews 12:28 (NKJV)
Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom which cannot be shaken, let us have grace, by which we may serve God acceptably with reverence and godly fear.
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Seeing Into an Unseen World
The Bible tells us that there is an invisible world that is influencing and impacting all of us. It impacts our thinking, our worldview, our attitude, our perception of morality and purity, our finances, our marriages, our relationships, how we do business, how we interact and deal with the issues of life, and so much more. The Bible tells us that we are being affected by an invisible world.
And, yet, when you bring this truth up, some people tend to resist the whole idea. They reject the notion that we are being influenced and affected by an unseen spiritual power or force. They prefer to ascribe all of life's craziness to randomness, lack of experience or just bad luck.
There are basically three types of people when it comes to discussing this topic. First of all, there are those people that don’t believe any of it. Secondly, there are those who believe it, but don’t believe it enough to let it impact and influence the way they live. And then lastly, there are those few, way out there, fanatical Christians who believe it and then let that belief effect the way they live and respond to life.
I don't know exactly where you are on that list? But, here’s how you can see the unseen world I’m talking about. No, you can’t use a microscope to prove it. And you can’t use a telescope or a ghost reader to discover it. What you need is a rear view mirror. Look back in your life, like I’ve looked back in mine, at some of the decisions and choices we've made. I mean, How could we have been so stupid? How could we have been so confused? How in the world did we think that relationship was going to go anywhere? Why did we think that approach to finances was gonna take us somewhere good? Why couldn't’t we see that our decisions were creating a pathway that was leading us to developing a habit, that we were going to deal with the rest of our lives?
I mean, for me looking back, it’s so clear now. But, in the moment, when the opportunity was there, when I was with that group of people, it just all made sense. But looking back now, all I can say is: "that was crazy! "
Or, maybe you don’t need a rear view mirror; you just need a mirror. Because, you’re in the middle of it right now. You make decisions in moments of sanity, and then you go and get with a group of people or an individual, or in a certain environment, and it’s like you lose your mind. It’s like you abandon everything you believe in. And then you come out and regain your sanity and your focus and your perspective and you look in the mirror and go, "What’s wrong with me?" "Why is it that I do that, or allow that?" It’s like you lose your mind. It’s like you become a different person. And always when you come out of it, you regret it and you have to deal with the consequences. and your left with the thought, "What’s wrong with me?"
Or, if those don’t do it for you. You just need to look around. Look at the people you love and want the best for. Do they all make great decisions and healthy choices? Or do you watch some of them make horrible decisions that you try and persuade them not to make. But, they argue their case and refuse to listen. And their logic is so fouled up, and their thinking is so twisted. And the rest of your friends or family members stand on the periphery of their lives and say, "you're going to regret that...". But, in their world, in that little capsule in which they are making their decisions. It all seems to makes perfect sense.
That’s the power of this unseen world. It’s a subtle twist of the truth. It’s a slight distortion of our direction. It’s a vague deception in the heat of the moment. And it is in those moments, sometimes just brief moments, that we hurt people we love, and destroy relationships, and alter our direction, and form divisive perspectives and crazy opinions. And so the Bible tells us to wake up to the reality that there is an unseen world that is out to confuse us and twist our thinking. Here's how the Bible puts it:
Ephesians 6:10-12 (NLT)
10 A final word: Be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power.
11 Put on all of God’s armor so that you will be able to stand firm against all strategies of the devil.
12 For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places.
There is an unseen world that we are fighting against. And that unseen world is subtly impacting all of us. Do you sense it and are you aware of it? Do you see the power that this unseen world has? Do you recognize that there is a devil that is out to destroy your life and ultimately your soul? If not why don't you pick up your Bible and read Ephesians 4:11-32, 5:1-20, 6:10-18
Let it be said of us like it was said of the church at Corinth;
2 Corinthians 2:11 (NASB)
...so that no advantage would be taken of us by Satan, for we are not ignorant of his schemes.
And, yet, when you bring this truth up, some people tend to resist the whole idea. They reject the notion that we are being influenced and affected by an unseen spiritual power or force. They prefer to ascribe all of life's craziness to randomness, lack of experience or just bad luck.
There are basically three types of people when it comes to discussing this topic. First of all, there are those people that don’t believe any of it. Secondly, there are those who believe it, but don’t believe it enough to let it impact and influence the way they live. And then lastly, there are those few, way out there, fanatical Christians who believe it and then let that belief effect the way they live and respond to life.
I don't know exactly where you are on that list? But, here’s how you can see the unseen world I’m talking about. No, you can’t use a microscope to prove it. And you can’t use a telescope or a ghost reader to discover it. What you need is a rear view mirror. Look back in your life, like I’ve looked back in mine, at some of the decisions and choices we've made. I mean, How could we have been so stupid? How could we have been so confused? How in the world did we think that relationship was going to go anywhere? Why did we think that approach to finances was gonna take us somewhere good? Why couldn't’t we see that our decisions were creating a pathway that was leading us to developing a habit, that we were going to deal with the rest of our lives?
I mean, for me looking back, it’s so clear now. But, in the moment, when the opportunity was there, when I was with that group of people, it just all made sense. But looking back now, all I can say is: "that was crazy! "
Or, maybe you don’t need a rear view mirror; you just need a mirror. Because, you’re in the middle of it right now. You make decisions in moments of sanity, and then you go and get with a group of people or an individual, or in a certain environment, and it’s like you lose your mind. It’s like you abandon everything you believe in. And then you come out and regain your sanity and your focus and your perspective and you look in the mirror and go, "What’s wrong with me?" "Why is it that I do that, or allow that?" It’s like you lose your mind. It’s like you become a different person. And always when you come out of it, you regret it and you have to deal with the consequences. and your left with the thought, "What’s wrong with me?"
Or, if those don’t do it for you. You just need to look around. Look at the people you love and want the best for. Do they all make great decisions and healthy choices? Or do you watch some of them make horrible decisions that you try and persuade them not to make. But, they argue their case and refuse to listen. And their logic is so fouled up, and their thinking is so twisted. And the rest of your friends or family members stand on the periphery of their lives and say, "you're going to regret that...". But, in their world, in that little capsule in which they are making their decisions. It all seems to makes perfect sense.
That’s the power of this unseen world. It’s a subtle twist of the truth. It’s a slight distortion of our direction. It’s a vague deception in the heat of the moment. And it is in those moments, sometimes just brief moments, that we hurt people we love, and destroy relationships, and alter our direction, and form divisive perspectives and crazy opinions. And so the Bible tells us to wake up to the reality that there is an unseen world that is out to confuse us and twist our thinking. Here's how the Bible puts it:
Ephesians 6:10-12 (NLT)
10 A final word: Be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power.
11 Put on all of God’s armor so that you will be able to stand firm against all strategies of the devil.
12 For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places.
There is an unseen world that we are fighting against. And that unseen world is subtly impacting all of us. Do you sense it and are you aware of it? Do you see the power that this unseen world has? Do you recognize that there is a devil that is out to destroy your life and ultimately your soul? If not why don't you pick up your Bible and read Ephesians 4:11-32, 5:1-20, 6:10-18
Let it be said of us like it was said of the church at Corinth;
2 Corinthians 2:11 (NASB)
...so that no advantage would be taken of us by Satan, for we are not ignorant of his schemes.
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Here I am God, Use me
As a Church we've been going through the book "Crazy Love" in our small groups. I don't know about all of you - it's been challenging, motivating and uncomfortable. But, through it all I want to have a heart that is always putting myself out there on that missional edge. That place where God can place incredible, way out there dreams and callings in my heart. What about you?
I found this video on YouTube, and I thought it was another great story of people giving their lives to the forward progress of the kingdom of God. It may be a little long, but I think it shows the difference between attractional evangelism (bringing people to church) and incarnational evangelism (bring Christ to the culture).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rRGac7eHKgc&feature=player_embedded
Now that you've watched the video, where are you being led to be the hands and feet of Jesus today?
I found this video on YouTube, and I thought it was another great story of people giving their lives to the forward progress of the kingdom of God. It may be a little long, but I think it shows the difference between attractional evangelism (bringing people to church) and incarnational evangelism (bring Christ to the culture).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rRGac7eHKgc&feature=player_embedded
Now that you've watched the video, where are you being led to be the hands and feet of Jesus today?
Thursday, October 22, 2009
You're Rich
Let's talk about MONEY
This is difficult topic for a preacher to talk about because… Some people think preachers talk about it too much. Some people think that’s all churches care about. But really, the truth is many people don't want to talk about money because in their lives they are so messed up in this area they don’t want to think about it, or talk about it, or be forced to look at it.
So let me set this up - We live in a culture that is constantly telling us and enticing us with the concept of HOW TO GET RICH. We are constantly being baited to feel like we need more. We are constantly being told that we can have more or that we deserve more. We are constantly being reminded that we should not be happy until we have it ALL. Basically, We live in a society that is all about promoting - THE WANT TO be rich. And the problem is, nobody is saying anything about how to BE rich. In other words – once you get rich – how do you be rich and be healthy and happy and content? How do you not let money become the central driving force in your life? How do you fight the tendency to put all your trust in your riches? How do you have money but not let money have you? How do you tell money what to do instead of money telling you what to do.
Now I know some - no, many - people saw the title of this blog and they saw the word “rich” and they said to themselves, "that’s not me, So this ones probably not for me. Here’s the deal though, how do we know who’s rich and who’s not? There’s not a line that when you cross it you go, "WOHO – I made it, I’m rich – finally I crossed the line". And so here’s what happens, no one thinks they are rich and so no one is trying to learn how to BE rich We’re all stuck in the striving to get rich. Praying to be blessed. Working and stressing and scheming to get a little more. And no one is stopping to realize and value or be thankful for how financially blessed we really are. No one recognizes that maybe we are rich people.
Track with me here – many of us here today are rich and we don’t accept it. And so we are living with a financial concept or in a financial system that says we need just a little bit more. When really we should be living in a financial system that is asking how do we find contentment. Isn't this how it is for most people. The poor guy says he needs $1000 dollars more. The middle class guy says he needs $10,000 more. And the upper class guy is trying to get $100,000 more. everyone is after just a little more. When what we should be doing is trying to find contentment right where we are right now. The peace that the bible offers is not found in the pursuit of "a little bit more". No, it's found in discovering contentment in your present circumstance and situation.
Look at the truths the Bible tells us when it comes to money. Look at the wisdom the Bible is trying to impart to those of us that are blessed with money. But also look at some of the intense warnings it gives
1 Timothy 6:10
For the love of money is at the root of all kinds of evil. And some people, craving money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many sorrows.
Ecclesiastes 5:10
Those who love money will never have enough. How absurd to think that wealth brings true happiness!
Proverbs 23:4 (NIV)
Do not wear yourself out to get rich; have the wisdom to show restraint.
1 Timothy 6:17-19 (NIV)
17Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment.
18Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share.
19In this way they will lay up treasure for themselves as a firm foundation for the coming age, so that they may take hold of the life that is truly life.
I challenge you to get off the run-away, never arriving, always filled with temptations train called the world's system to financial prosperity. Which tells it's riders that what they need is "a little bit more". And I invite you to board God's train that will take you to a place called financial contentment. If you'd like to learn more here's a good place to start
Dave Ramsey's - Financial peace University
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
God's Family System
No other passage in the Bible defines the families role as clearly as Deuteronomy 6. Moses stands before the entire nation as a grandfather and leader to position the family as God’s primary conduit to tell his story of redemption and restoration. Moses highlights values that should transcend time and culture. They are this
#1 We have to GET RID OF ALL THE COMPETITION - Deut 6:4
#2 We have to MAKE IT PERSONAL - Deut 6:5-6
#3 We have to CREATE A RHYTHM - Deut 6:7-9
#4 We have to FIGHT FOR THEIR HEART, SOUL AND MIND - Deut 6:20
#5 We have to WIDEN THE CIRCLE of Influence - Deut 6:4a
The fight for the hearts and minds of our children is raging all around us. The Good news is this, God has given us a system to follow. A plan that will lead to success. The Bible says it like this;
Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it. Proverbs 22:6 (NKJV)
There is a "way", a God ordained system that will lead to passing from one generation to the next the principles that matter most. Raising healthy, godly families is not a hit or miss, do your best, no one really knows adventure. It is a rewarding privilege that God wants to partner with us in. But, for that to happen we have to accept and follow God's system, His way, His path, His principles.
Reggie Joiner in His book, Thinking Orange, issued this warning and insight that I think is so important;
"Please don’t get this confused – this is not a debate about family values. Many leaders are fighting for their definition of family values, but often they have forgotten what it means to actually value their families. Have you ever considered the possibility that how families treat each other may have far greater consequences on children than where we draw the line on the issues of the day? It’s one thing to stand up for what you believe, but it’s easy to lose sight of the root issues that genuinely affect a family. While numerous organizations have waged a war for family values, family relationships continue to break down"
The point is, we have to get and stay focused on living out and following God's plan. We have to fight the right fight and spend our limited time and energy keeping in place the right system. And, that is easier said than done. For that reason the church and the family need to partner together. The church and the family need to both be pushing in the same direction and with the same purpose. I encourage you to make it a priority to learn what it really means to "Think Orange" - that's our new, church and family partnership strategy phrase. I implore you to avail yourself of the many opportunities to live out God's family system outlined for us in Deuteronomy 6. That's what our church is attempting to create. So get on board, prepare yourself for change and let's teach the greatest commandment to the next generation
Mark 12:29-31 (KJV)
29 And Jesus answered him, The first of all the commandments is, Hear, O Israel; The Lord our God is one Lord:
30 And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment.
31 And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these.
Like Joshua of old, I stand up and proclaim:
if it seem evil unto you to serve the LORD, choose you this day whom ye will serve; but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD. Josh 24:15 (KJV)
Will you join me?
#1 We have to GET RID OF ALL THE COMPETITION - Deut 6:4
#2 We have to MAKE IT PERSONAL - Deut 6:5-6
#3 We have to CREATE A RHYTHM - Deut 6:7-9
#4 We have to FIGHT FOR THEIR HEART, SOUL AND MIND - Deut 6:20
#5 We have to WIDEN THE CIRCLE of Influence - Deut 6:4a
The fight for the hearts and minds of our children is raging all around us. The Good news is this, God has given us a system to follow. A plan that will lead to success. The Bible says it like this;
Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it. Proverbs 22:6 (NKJV)
There is a "way", a God ordained system that will lead to passing from one generation to the next the principles that matter most. Raising healthy, godly families is not a hit or miss, do your best, no one really knows adventure. It is a rewarding privilege that God wants to partner with us in. But, for that to happen we have to accept and follow God's system, His way, His path, His principles.
Reggie Joiner in His book, Thinking Orange, issued this warning and insight that I think is so important;
"Please don’t get this confused – this is not a debate about family values. Many leaders are fighting for their definition of family values, but often they have forgotten what it means to actually value their families. Have you ever considered the possibility that how families treat each other may have far greater consequences on children than where we draw the line on the issues of the day? It’s one thing to stand up for what you believe, but it’s easy to lose sight of the root issues that genuinely affect a family. While numerous organizations have waged a war for family values, family relationships continue to break down"
The point is, we have to get and stay focused on living out and following God's plan. We have to fight the right fight and spend our limited time and energy keeping in place the right system. And, that is easier said than done. For that reason the church and the family need to partner together. The church and the family need to both be pushing in the same direction and with the same purpose. I encourage you to make it a priority to learn what it really means to "Think Orange" - that's our new, church and family partnership strategy phrase. I implore you to avail yourself of the many opportunities to live out God's family system outlined for us in Deuteronomy 6. That's what our church is attempting to create. So get on board, prepare yourself for change and let's teach the greatest commandment to the next generation
Mark 12:29-31 (KJV)
29 And Jesus answered him, The first of all the commandments is, Hear, O Israel; The Lord our God is one Lord:
30 And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment.
31 And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these.
Like Joshua of old, I stand up and proclaim:
if it seem evil unto you to serve the LORD, choose you this day whom ye will serve; but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD. Josh 24:15 (KJV)
Will you join me?
Thursday, October 8, 2009
Thinking Orange
Chap Clark made this statement, while offering some strong insights about creating a healthy structure within our families;
"Moms and dads need to see their parental role as a marathon, recognizing that building a relationship in which their child trusts them is even more important than whether they can trust their child regarding the immediate issues of the day".
Reggie Joiner commented on that statement by saying;
"Although it may seem intuitive, intentionality is required for consistency in my actions and relationships with my kids. It's ironic that sometimes my reaction to what I see as broken trust on their part can affect their confidence in me. The truth is that their trust in me is affected when I...
"Moms and dads need to see their parental role as a marathon, recognizing that building a relationship in which their child trusts them is even more important than whether they can trust their child regarding the immediate issues of the day".
Reggie Joiner commented on that statement by saying;
"Although it may seem intuitive, intentionality is required for consistency in my actions and relationships with my kids. It's ironic that sometimes my reaction to what I see as broken trust on their part can affect their confidence in me. The truth is that their trust in me is affected when I...
- discipline in anger
- use words that communicate rejection
- ignore their voices
- don't try to understand who they really are
- break my core promises"
For me, I notice that it easier to get hyper focused on my child's need to earn my trust and measure up to my expectation than it is for me to actively pursue building up their trust in me as their parent. The reason, I have discovered for that is this, to often I see myself as the mature one and they as the ones in development. I tend to get so absorbed with molding them into what they should be that I forget my need to develop consistency in how I respond to them.
To be honest with you, it has taken me a long time to finally own up to this aspect of my responsibility in the equation. It has taken me a long time to finally realize that...
- how trustworthy I am at this stage is more important for their growth than how trustworthy they are.
Listen to what The ReThink Group discovered;
"In interviews with hundreds of teenagers and college students, the wounds that go deepest are those connected to the issue of trust. When parents fight for the hearts of their children, they establish a lifestyle of proving that they can be trusted. Parents need to recognize how important it is to build trust with each of their children individually-It is the relational glue that seals intimacy and love."
If any aspect of this article has stirred your heart and/or challenged you as a parent, I encourage you to join our church as we begin the process of "THINKING ORANGE". It's more than just a church Sunday School curriculum, It's a strategy that connects the church and the family to make a lasting impact in the lives of our children.
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Relational Influence
While preparing for a sermon about our need to connect with God and those around us. I was drawn to the passage in 2 Timothy 3 where Paul is equipping Timothy for the task of leading people. Paul says this:
2 Tim 3:1 (NKJV) But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come:
Not exactly words of comfort, for sure. Not the kind of encouragement an up-and-coming pastor wants to hear. But Paul was equipping Timothy, and equipping requires there to be clarity. Equipping is the process of preparing a person for what lies ahead. And so after issuing that warning, Paul begins to list what those perilous times are going to look like.
• People will love only themselves and their money.
• They will be boastful and proud, scoffing at God.
• They will be disobedient to their parents, and ungrateful.
• They will consider nothing sacred.
• They will be unloving and unforgiving.
• They will slander others and have no self-control.
• They will be cruel and have no interest in what is good.
• They will betray their friends, be reckless, be puffed up with pride, and love pleasure rather than God.
What struck me at first was that the perilous times Paul was warning Timothy about were not wars, natural disasters and the judgments of God. They were all related to a relational breakdown between people and God or people and each other. Paul was warning Timothy that there was coming a time when relationally people would create an atmosphere and environment where the natural desire to connect with God and those around them would be challenged.
But, that’s not the worst of it. All that stuff Paul listed would be horrible enough if it was describing the prevailing picture of a generation of unbelievers. But that’s not what Paul had in mind. He goes on to say this in verse 5
2 Tim 3:5 (TEV) they will hold to the outward form of our religion, but reject its real power. Keep away from such people.
Paul was telling Timothy those people will call themselves Christians and even go to our churches and “DO” religious stuff. The King James Version says “they will have a form of godliness, but they will deny the power thereof”. Form but no power. They will look right but they will not be right. They will have the outward moves right but not do them for the right reason. And the reason for this disconnect is these people reject or deny the real power of the Christian life.
So what is that real power, and what does it mean to reject it?
Without getting long winded or wordy let me state what the real power is – It’s relational Influences.
That is what Paul calls Timothy’s attention to as he closes out this chapter. He calls Timothy to remember, and value the relational influences in his life.
Notice verses 10 – 11, Paul says, come on Timothy, you know what I teach, and how I live, and what my purpose in life is. You know my faith and how long I have suffered. You know my love and my patient endurance. You know how much persecution and suffering I have endured. You know all about how I was persecuted — but you also know Timothy that the Lord was faithful and that He has delivered me from all of it.
In verse 12 Paul challenges Timothy to value and pursue pleasing God even if it means suffering. And He even goes as far as to say you will suffer for wanting to relationally connect with God. Yes, Paul says - those who decide to please Christ Jesus by living godly lives will suffer at the hands of those who hate him
Then notice verses 14-15 Paul calls Timothy to remember the relational influences of his past. He tells Timothy, “you must remain faithful to the things you have been taught. You know they are true, for you know you can trust those who taught you.
And then Paul concludes this chapter by illuminating for Timothy the intended influence that the Words of God should have in our lives. All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It straightens us out and teaches us to do what is right. It is God's way of preparing us in every way, fully equipped for every good thing God wants us to do.
As I finished reading this chapter in light of my understanding that it’s all about relational influences, it was like God took a huge weight off of me. It’s all about relational influences, and those are what I really want. I don’t need to worry about perilous times or suffering. I don’t need to fight against the culture or war against the trends of an unhealthy generation. I need to really connect with God and I need to really connect with those healthy believers and examples that God has brought around me.
What the church needs and what Paul was equipping Timothy to accomplish was to make, keep, guard and value our relational influences. Success or failure within the kingdom of God for each of us personally will be determined by them.
So the question is – who is influencing you? Because, the battle for our hearts and minds begins right there.
2 Tim 3:1 (NKJV) But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come:
Not exactly words of comfort, for sure. Not the kind of encouragement an up-and-coming pastor wants to hear. But Paul was equipping Timothy, and equipping requires there to be clarity. Equipping is the process of preparing a person for what lies ahead. And so after issuing that warning, Paul begins to list what those perilous times are going to look like.
• People will love only themselves and their money.
• They will be boastful and proud, scoffing at God.
• They will be disobedient to their parents, and ungrateful.
• They will consider nothing sacred.
• They will be unloving and unforgiving.
• They will slander others and have no self-control.
• They will be cruel and have no interest in what is good.
• They will betray their friends, be reckless, be puffed up with pride, and love pleasure rather than God.
What struck me at first was that the perilous times Paul was warning Timothy about were not wars, natural disasters and the judgments of God. They were all related to a relational breakdown between people and God or people and each other. Paul was warning Timothy that there was coming a time when relationally people would create an atmosphere and environment where the natural desire to connect with God and those around them would be challenged.
But, that’s not the worst of it. All that stuff Paul listed would be horrible enough if it was describing the prevailing picture of a generation of unbelievers. But that’s not what Paul had in mind. He goes on to say this in verse 5
2 Tim 3:5 (TEV) they will hold to the outward form of our religion, but reject its real power. Keep away from such people.
Paul was telling Timothy those people will call themselves Christians and even go to our churches and “DO” religious stuff. The King James Version says “they will have a form of godliness, but they will deny the power thereof”. Form but no power. They will look right but they will not be right. They will have the outward moves right but not do them for the right reason. And the reason for this disconnect is these people reject or deny the real power of the Christian life.
So what is that real power, and what does it mean to reject it?
Without getting long winded or wordy let me state what the real power is – It’s relational Influences.
That is what Paul calls Timothy’s attention to as he closes out this chapter. He calls Timothy to remember, and value the relational influences in his life.
Notice verses 10 – 11, Paul says, come on Timothy, you know what I teach, and how I live, and what my purpose in life is. You know my faith and how long I have suffered. You know my love and my patient endurance. You know how much persecution and suffering I have endured. You know all about how I was persecuted — but you also know Timothy that the Lord was faithful and that He has delivered me from all of it.
In verse 12 Paul challenges Timothy to value and pursue pleasing God even if it means suffering. And He even goes as far as to say you will suffer for wanting to relationally connect with God. Yes, Paul says - those who decide to please Christ Jesus by living godly lives will suffer at the hands of those who hate him
Then notice verses 14-15 Paul calls Timothy to remember the relational influences of his past. He tells Timothy, “you must remain faithful to the things you have been taught. You know they are true, for you know you can trust those who taught you.
And then Paul concludes this chapter by illuminating for Timothy the intended influence that the Words of God should have in our lives. All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It straightens us out and teaches us to do what is right. It is God's way of preparing us in every way, fully equipped for every good thing God wants us to do.
As I finished reading this chapter in light of my understanding that it’s all about relational influences, it was like God took a huge weight off of me. It’s all about relational influences, and those are what I really want. I don’t need to worry about perilous times or suffering. I don’t need to fight against the culture or war against the trends of an unhealthy generation. I need to really connect with God and I need to really connect with those healthy believers and examples that God has brought around me.
What the church needs and what Paul was equipping Timothy to accomplish was to make, keep, guard and value our relational influences. Success or failure within the kingdom of God for each of us personally will be determined by them.
So the question is – who is influencing you? Because, the battle for our hearts and minds begins right there.
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
Clarity
Stephen Covey said: “Things which matter most, must never be at the mercy of things which matter least".
Think about that, the things that matter most must never be sacrificed or moved over for any reason. There should be no conflicts in our life that make choosing the things which don't matter even a possibility. There should be no competition for our time, money or talent. The things in our lives that matter most should get our best, every time. Our lives should promote and make it easy for us to focus on and choose those things that matter most.
One wise guy simplified it all when he said it like this: "The Main thing is to keep the main thing, the main thing"
Look at the wisdom of Solomon as he clarifies this struggle: Ecclesiastes 7:13 (NLT) Notice the way God does things; then fall into line. Don't fight the ways of God, for who can straighten out what he has made crooked?
That sounds so simple doesn’t it? Find out what matters most and then - do it, live it, learn it, enjoy it, practice it, fund it, dream it, BECOME IT. Find out God's ways and get your life in line. Makes sense – Right? Sounds easy enough – right? On a piece of paper – the answer is yes. As I write it right now - It sounds so simple. But we all know it’s not.
The truth of the matter is this - all of us have found ourselves at one time or another fighting against God’s ways. We've found ourselves letting those things which don't matter very much at all to take us away from what really does matter. Now, not on purpose of course, because why would anyone purposely fight against the ways of God? The answer is – because we don’t know that’s what we're doing.
The reason it’s difficult to –“keep the main thing the main thing” is because we’re not exactly sure what the “main thing” really is. The reason we struggle to focus our time and energy on those areas that matters most is – we’re not clear what it is that “matters most”.
And the primary reason for all that confusion is:
Think about that, the things that matter most must never be sacrificed or moved over for any reason. There should be no conflicts in our life that make choosing the things which don't matter even a possibility. There should be no competition for our time, money or talent. The things in our lives that matter most should get our best, every time. Our lives should promote and make it easy for us to focus on and choose those things that matter most.
One wise guy simplified it all when he said it like this: "The Main thing is to keep the main thing, the main thing"
Look at the wisdom of Solomon as he clarifies this struggle: Ecclesiastes 7:13 (NLT) Notice the way God does things; then fall into line. Don't fight the ways of God, for who can straighten out what he has made crooked?
That sounds so simple doesn’t it? Find out what matters most and then - do it, live it, learn it, enjoy it, practice it, fund it, dream it, BECOME IT. Find out God's ways and get your life in line. Makes sense – Right? Sounds easy enough – right? On a piece of paper – the answer is yes. As I write it right now - It sounds so simple. But we all know it’s not.
The truth of the matter is this - all of us have found ourselves at one time or another fighting against God’s ways. We've found ourselves letting those things which don't matter very much at all to take us away from what really does matter. Now, not on purpose of course, because why would anyone purposely fight against the ways of God? The answer is – because we don’t know that’s what we're doing.
The reason it’s difficult to –“keep the main thing the main thing” is because we’re not exactly sure what the “main thing” really is. The reason we struggle to focus our time and energy on those areas that matters most is – we’re not clear what it is that “matters most”.
And the primary reason for all that confusion is:
- We’ve created way too complicated lives.
- We’ve allowed conflicting priorities to exist side by side.
- We’ve let the uncertainty of what we don’t know cloud out the clarity of what we do know.
Why do people choose things that matter least at the expense of those that matter most? The reason is they lack clarity.
To Illustrate this, let me make it real personal – This week My wife and I will be celebrating 15 years of marriage. What do you thing is the most important thing for me to do this week? If I get the opportunity to go golfing – My answer should be? If President Obama calls to fly me out to Washington DC to hear my opinion on the direction of the country, my answer should be? That’s called clarity. And, that is what we all need.
The answer to all the uncertainty and confusion in our lives is clarity. Clarity is what gives us the confidence to do what we need to do. To say what we need to say and to choose what we need to choose. When clarity is absent there will be fear and doubt in every step. When clarity is clouded or buried under a pile of obligations and regulations, we make bad decisions. We do dumb things that we look back on with regret.
So no matter how hard it is - get clarity in your life. Do whatever you have to do to make your life match your priorities. Then at least you will spend your time doing what you have decided matters most to you. And from there God can begin the work of helping you to get those priorities in line with His will.
Friday, August 21, 2009
The Gospel
While reading an article by Matt Chandler entitled, "The Good Fight" on the process of sanctification and the war against sin, I came across this statement:
"I had been fed a gospel that said; Do you want a better life? Do you want to be happy? Then come to Jesus. But when my struggles with sin didn't immediately go away, I felt I had been lied to. I felt I had been duped. No one told me how much deeper sin was, or how ruthless Jesus was going to be once he took over my heart."
That statement spoke to me in so many ways. What is the Gospel message that I am feeding? what are people hearing me say God wants to do in them and for them? And then after that, what is the ongoing message people hear when they choose to do life with me as their pastor?
Those are hard questions to answer because our feelings and religious posterity get in the way. Maybe, like me, your first response was to defend your approach and how you lay-out and teach the gospel message. Did you, like me, focus all your attention on what you do and how you do it, your doctrinal viewpoints and your theological stances? If so, you have to move beyond all that, the issue is not about you or your doctrine, it's about them and what they are becoming. Can you step back and view what your preaching and teaching is producing in the lives of the people that follow you? Can you objectively allow God to speak to you about how you are passing on His message?
That's the goal in writing this article. I don't want to get into a debate or challenge what you teach, although that may be needed. I want to encourage you to look at the long term results of what your gospel message is producing in the hearts and minds of those you influence.
Maybe for you it's not that you preach a soft, wimpy gospel, maybe you preach a mean, harsh one. And what people come away with is a feeling that they never measure up. Maybe you are right theologically and doctrinally but your attitude and approach is offensive.
The point is this - the way you and I preach and model the gospel of Jesus Christ is producing in people a perspective on what God expects and wants to do in their lives. We are painting a picture of what it means to "live for God". And that is a huge responsibility. I want to be able, like the Apostle Paul, to stand up at the end of my life and say, like He did:
(Act 20:26) Wherefore I take you to record this day, that I am pure from the blood of all men.
(Act 20:27) For I have not shunned to declare unto you all the counsel of God.
Now before you just write this whole thing off. And pat yourself on the back, because you're doctrine is right or your theology is perfect. Notice Paul didn't point to his doctrine or theology as proof for his confidence. Paul pointed to his lifestyle and sacrifice. Paul points to a decision that he had made early on in his ministry in regards to the way he would financially fund the call of God on his life. He points to a personal choice that he made to not take any money from the people or churches that he lead to Christ or built.
(Act 20:32) And now, brethren, I commend you to God, and to the word of his grace, which is able to build you up, and to give you an inheritance among all them which are sanctified.
(Act 20:33) I have coveted no man's silver, or gold, or apparel.
(Act 20:34) Yea, ye yourselves know, that these hands have ministered unto my necessities, and to them that were with me.
(Act 20:35) I have shewed you all things, how that so labouring ye ought to support the weak, and to remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he said, It is more blessed to give than to receive.
And then Paul brings the responsibility of leading people home to all of us.
(Act 20:28) Take heed therefore unto yourselves, and to all the flock, over the which the Holy Ghost hath made you overseers, to feed the church of God, which he hath purchased with his own blood.
"I had been fed a gospel that said; Do you want a better life? Do you want to be happy? Then come to Jesus. But when my struggles with sin didn't immediately go away, I felt I had been lied to. I felt I had been duped. No one told me how much deeper sin was, or how ruthless Jesus was going to be once he took over my heart."
That statement spoke to me in so many ways. What is the Gospel message that I am feeding? what are people hearing me say God wants to do in them and for them? And then after that, what is the ongoing message people hear when they choose to do life with me as their pastor?
Those are hard questions to answer because our feelings and religious posterity get in the way. Maybe, like me, your first response was to defend your approach and how you lay-out and teach the gospel message. Did you, like me, focus all your attention on what you do and how you do it, your doctrinal viewpoints and your theological stances? If so, you have to move beyond all that, the issue is not about you or your doctrine, it's about them and what they are becoming. Can you step back and view what your preaching and teaching is producing in the lives of the people that follow you? Can you objectively allow God to speak to you about how you are passing on His message?
That's the goal in writing this article. I don't want to get into a debate or challenge what you teach, although that may be needed. I want to encourage you to look at the long term results of what your gospel message is producing in the hearts and minds of those you influence.
Maybe for you it's not that you preach a soft, wimpy gospel, maybe you preach a mean, harsh one. And what people come away with is a feeling that they never measure up. Maybe you are right theologically and doctrinally but your attitude and approach is offensive.
The point is this - the way you and I preach and model the gospel of Jesus Christ is producing in people a perspective on what God expects and wants to do in their lives. We are painting a picture of what it means to "live for God". And that is a huge responsibility. I want to be able, like the Apostle Paul, to stand up at the end of my life and say, like He did:
(Act 20:26) Wherefore I take you to record this day, that I am pure from the blood of all men.
(Act 20:27) For I have not shunned to declare unto you all the counsel of God.
Now before you just write this whole thing off. And pat yourself on the back, because you're doctrine is right or your theology is perfect. Notice Paul didn't point to his doctrine or theology as proof for his confidence. Paul pointed to his lifestyle and sacrifice. Paul points to a decision that he had made early on in his ministry in regards to the way he would financially fund the call of God on his life. He points to a personal choice that he made to not take any money from the people or churches that he lead to Christ or built.
(Act 20:32) And now, brethren, I commend you to God, and to the word of his grace, which is able to build you up, and to give you an inheritance among all them which are sanctified.
(Act 20:33) I have coveted no man's silver, or gold, or apparel.
(Act 20:34) Yea, ye yourselves know, that these hands have ministered unto my necessities, and to them that were with me.
(Act 20:35) I have shewed you all things, how that so labouring ye ought to support the weak, and to remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he said, It is more blessed to give than to receive.
And then Paul brings the responsibility of leading people home to all of us.
(Act 20:28) Take heed therefore unto yourselves, and to all the flock, over the which the Holy Ghost hath made you overseers, to feed the church of God, which he hath purchased with his own blood.
So what about it? Do you, like me, see any aspects of your leadership as a spiritual leader that needs to be addressed? Can you evaluate yourself, like Paul, at a deeper level than just your doctrine or religion? Yes those things matter, and yes they matter on the front end. But what about all the other area’s that come with being a follower of Jesus Christ. I think Paul’s admonition and wisdom that he gave to the believers at Corinth hit this issue right on the head
(1Co 10:31) Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God.
(1Co 10:32) Give none offence, neither to the Jews, nor to the Gentiles, nor to the church of God:
(1Co 10:33) Even as I please all men in all things, not seeking mine own profit, but the profit of many, that they may be saved.
(1Co 10:32) Give none offence, neither to the Jews, nor to the Gentiles, nor to the church of God:
(1Co 10:33) Even as I please all men in all things, not seeking mine own profit, but the profit of many, that they may be saved.
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
What is a Christian?
Over time, some words loose their meaning or they evolve into mere faint shadows of their original definitions.
The most recent example of this has been the debate across our country over the definition of the word "marriage". Is marriage, as it has always been; the union between one man and one woman. Or, is it the more recent definition; the celebration of love between two adults? That debate is raging as as I write right now.
Over the last decade, there has been a great re-defining of the word "truth" - It used to simply mean; that which is true, a fact. And it was commonly understood that there could only be one truth. But, now days many people would assert that "truth" in relative and not absolute. And it's meaning, while still the same, must be understood in this context - Truth is that which is true to you. So there can be two totally different and even opposing truths at the same time and both are valid and equal.
This slight drift in meanings has invaded the church dictionary as well and created within our circles a muddied, watered down version of who we are as believers. The term that has become the identifying description of us in our day is the word "Christian". And then after identifying our religious affiliation we add in the flavor of Christianity that we follow. i.e. I'm a pentecostal, apostolic, baptist or catholic Christian, I'm a Spirit-filled, non-denominational, evangelical or orthodox Christian. And don't miss-understand me, I like the word christian - it basically means to be a follower of Jesus Christ. What I don't like, is the fact that many people view the word as a destination and not a continual journey. To be a "Christian" is to be a FOLLOWER of Jesus Christ, not someone who has ARRIVED at a belief structure. As if, when you become a Christian you arrive at some spiritual level and then everything after that is optional and based on your preferences.
Being a Christian in our day seems to be something a bit different than it would have meant to be one in the days of the Bibles. The more recent definition of being a Christian is this; One who professes belief in Jesus as Christ or follows the religion based on the life and teachings of Jesus. Notice the subtle word "or" that is inserted into the more recent definition. Being a Christian is as simple as professing a belief in Jesus. No action required, no change in lifestyle or thought life. Just profess a belief in Jesus and you are now considered a christian. That is a far cry from what it meant to be a christian when the first group coined the phrase. notice what acts 11:26 says the "Christians" were called before they assumed this new name
"...the disciples were first called Christians in Antioch" (Acts 11:26 NKJV).
Before they were called Christians they referred to themselves as "disciples". And that word definitely does not portray as pretty a picture as the word Christian. To be a disciple sounds militaristic. It sounds like a lot of commitment and sacrifice. And for sure, in the time of the New Testament Christians to be a disciple meant all those things and a whole lot more. is the expectation any less today? sadly, the answer would have to be yes. In our day the average christian does not make you want to call them a a disciple. Those words seem to describe two different levels of Christians. But in the days of the Bible they meant the same thing.
So what has changed or what has happened?
I believe the gradual drift from the word "follower" is where the modern day christian lost his way. To be a Christian or to be a disciple means that you are a follower of Jesus Christ. It means that He is leading and guiding you into new revelations and a deeper relationship while at the same time you are following the truths and relational commitments you have already learned and made. Being a Christian means that you have convictions without being judgemental. You have a belief structure that is build upon a relationship. You are mature in your faith while at the same time ever hungry for more truth. Being a Christian means that you are a disciple. You are a follower of the one God of the Bible - Jesus
Maybe we need to go back to the original term of describing ourselves so that we can recapture the meaning of what it means to be a "follower" of Jesus Christ. Maybe we need reverse the trend that started in Acts 11:26. How does this sound...
"...the Christians were again called disciples in America" (August 13, 2009).
The most recent example of this has been the debate across our country over the definition of the word "marriage". Is marriage, as it has always been; the union between one man and one woman. Or, is it the more recent definition; the celebration of love between two adults? That debate is raging as as I write right now.
Over the last decade, there has been a great re-defining of the word "truth" - It used to simply mean; that which is true, a fact. And it was commonly understood that there could only be one truth. But, now days many people would assert that "truth" in relative and not absolute. And it's meaning, while still the same, must be understood in this context - Truth is that which is true to you. So there can be two totally different and even opposing truths at the same time and both are valid and equal.
This slight drift in meanings has invaded the church dictionary as well and created within our circles a muddied, watered down version of who we are as believers. The term that has become the identifying description of us in our day is the word "Christian". And then after identifying our religious affiliation we add in the flavor of Christianity that we follow. i.e. I'm a pentecostal, apostolic, baptist or catholic Christian, I'm a Spirit-filled, non-denominational, evangelical or orthodox Christian. And don't miss-understand me, I like the word christian - it basically means to be a follower of Jesus Christ. What I don't like, is the fact that many people view the word as a destination and not a continual journey. To be a "Christian" is to be a FOLLOWER of Jesus Christ, not someone who has ARRIVED at a belief structure. As if, when you become a Christian you arrive at some spiritual level and then everything after that is optional and based on your preferences.
Being a Christian in our day seems to be something a bit different than it would have meant to be one in the days of the Bibles. The more recent definition of being a Christian is this; One who professes belief in Jesus as Christ or follows the religion based on the life and teachings of Jesus. Notice the subtle word "or" that is inserted into the more recent definition. Being a Christian is as simple as professing a belief in Jesus. No action required, no change in lifestyle or thought life. Just profess a belief in Jesus and you are now considered a christian. That is a far cry from what it meant to be a christian when the first group coined the phrase. notice what acts 11:26 says the "Christians" were called before they assumed this new name
"...the disciples were first called Christians in Antioch" (Acts 11:26 NKJV).
Before they were called Christians they referred to themselves as "disciples". And that word definitely does not portray as pretty a picture as the word Christian. To be a disciple sounds militaristic. It sounds like a lot of commitment and sacrifice. And for sure, in the time of the New Testament Christians to be a disciple meant all those things and a whole lot more. is the expectation any less today? sadly, the answer would have to be yes. In our day the average christian does not make you want to call them a a disciple. Those words seem to describe two different levels of Christians. But in the days of the Bible they meant the same thing.
So what has changed or what has happened?
I believe the gradual drift from the word "follower" is where the modern day christian lost his way. To be a Christian or to be a disciple means that you are a follower of Jesus Christ. It means that He is leading and guiding you into new revelations and a deeper relationship while at the same time you are following the truths and relational commitments you have already learned and made. Being a Christian means that you have convictions without being judgemental. You have a belief structure that is build upon a relationship. You are mature in your faith while at the same time ever hungry for more truth. Being a Christian means that you are a disciple. You are a follower of the one God of the Bible - Jesus
Maybe we need to go back to the original term of describing ourselves so that we can recapture the meaning of what it means to be a "follower" of Jesus Christ. Maybe we need reverse the trend that started in Acts 11:26. How does this sound...
"...the Christians were again called disciples in America" (August 13, 2009).
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Dying Daily
As disciples of Jesus Christ, we must make the daily decision to pick up our cross and follow Him. Put another way, we are called to give ourselves to God as a "living sacrifice". We see this word picture used by the Apostle Paul to help the Christians at Rome better understand this concept of dying daily.
(Romans 12:1-2 NLT) And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice — the kind he will accept. When you think of what he has done for you, is this too much to ask? 2 Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will know what God wants you to do, and you will know how good and pleasing and perfect his will really is.
So, how do we truly present ourselves to God as a living sacrifice? In a nutshell, we must be willing to die daily to our desires and expectations. We must put the call of God and the mandate of the gospel above our own. This concept is wonderfully presented in this anonymous poem…
When you are forgotten, neglected, or purposely set at naught, and you don't sting or hurt with the oversight, but your heart is happy being counted worthy to suffer for Christ;
That is dying to self.
When your good is evil spoken of, when your wishes are crossed, your advice disregarded, your opinion ridiculed, and you refuse to let anger rise in your heart or even defend yourself, but take it all in patiently, lovingly silently;
That is dying to self.
When you lovingly and patiently bear any disorder, any irregularity, any annoyance; when you can stand face to face with waste, folly, extravagance, spiritual insensibility, and endure it as Jesus did;
That is dying to self.
When you are content with any food, and offering, any raiment, any climate, any society, any solitude, any interruption by the will of God;
That is dying to self.
When you never care to refer to yourself in conversation or record your own good works or itch after commendation, when you can truly love to be unknown;
That is dying to self.
When you can see your brother prosper and have his needs met, and can honestly rejoice with him in spirit and feel no envy, nor question God, while your own needs are far greater and you are in desperate circumstances;
That is dying to self.
When you can receive correction and reproof and can humbly submit, inwardly as well as outwardly, finding no rebellion or resentment rising up within your heart;
That is dying to self.
Now before you just throw in the towel and go - "well I'm a big failure at this dying daily thing". catch the outcome of getting this concept down, of allowing God to transform the way we think.
The great reward of dying daily to ourselves, of willingly becoming a living sacrifice is seen in the last part of Romans 12:2
Then you will know what God wants you to do, and you will know how good and pleasing and perfect his will really is.
In the end, the person who willingly offers his/her life as a living sacrifice is really the one who finds the joy and peace that is associated with living in and doing the perfect will of God.
Now let me throw this in before I close. Many people do right things for God. Some people even do sacrificial things for God. And a few may even act or look foolishly in an effort to please God. But it's not simply doing right or sacrificial or fanatical things that prove we are accomplishing the goal of becoming "living sacrifices". The result that God is trying to produce in us by asking us to "die daily" or offer our lives as a "living sacrifice" will show up in our heart. A genuine "want to" will spring up inside of us. No longer will we do things because we have to, instead we'll do them because we want to.
Is your "dying daily" decision producing the want to in you? Is your offering yourself as a "living sacrifice" producing a clear knowledge of Gods will and how good and perfect it really is in your heart?
If not, don't despair. Find someone you trust in spiritual matters and tell them about your desire to understand more about becoming a "living sacrifice". And continue to pray for the clarity that comes from living in the perfect will of God, of being a disciple of Jesus Christ.
(Romans 12:1-2 NLT) And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice — the kind he will accept. When you think of what he has done for you, is this too much to ask? 2 Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will know what God wants you to do, and you will know how good and pleasing and perfect his will really is.
So, how do we truly present ourselves to God as a living sacrifice? In a nutshell, we must be willing to die daily to our desires and expectations. We must put the call of God and the mandate of the gospel above our own. This concept is wonderfully presented in this anonymous poem…
When you are forgotten, neglected, or purposely set at naught, and you don't sting or hurt with the oversight, but your heart is happy being counted worthy to suffer for Christ;
That is dying to self.
When your good is evil spoken of, when your wishes are crossed, your advice disregarded, your opinion ridiculed, and you refuse to let anger rise in your heart or even defend yourself, but take it all in patiently, lovingly silently;
That is dying to self.
When you lovingly and patiently bear any disorder, any irregularity, any annoyance; when you can stand face to face with waste, folly, extravagance, spiritual insensibility, and endure it as Jesus did;
That is dying to self.
When you are content with any food, and offering, any raiment, any climate, any society, any solitude, any interruption by the will of God;
That is dying to self.
When you never care to refer to yourself in conversation or record your own good works or itch after commendation, when you can truly love to be unknown;
That is dying to self.
When you can see your brother prosper and have his needs met, and can honestly rejoice with him in spirit and feel no envy, nor question God, while your own needs are far greater and you are in desperate circumstances;
That is dying to self.
When you can receive correction and reproof and can humbly submit, inwardly as well as outwardly, finding no rebellion or resentment rising up within your heart;
That is dying to self.
Now before you just throw in the towel and go - "well I'm a big failure at this dying daily thing". catch the outcome of getting this concept down, of allowing God to transform the way we think.
The great reward of dying daily to ourselves, of willingly becoming a living sacrifice is seen in the last part of Romans 12:2
Then you will know what God wants you to do, and you will know how good and pleasing and perfect his will really is.
In the end, the person who willingly offers his/her life as a living sacrifice is really the one who finds the joy and peace that is associated with living in and doing the perfect will of God.
Now let me throw this in before I close. Many people do right things for God. Some people even do sacrificial things for God. And a few may even act or look foolishly in an effort to please God. But it's not simply doing right or sacrificial or fanatical things that prove we are accomplishing the goal of becoming "living sacrifices". The result that God is trying to produce in us by asking us to "die daily" or offer our lives as a "living sacrifice" will show up in our heart. A genuine "want to" will spring up inside of us. No longer will we do things because we have to, instead we'll do them because we want to.
Is your "dying daily" decision producing the want to in you? Is your offering yourself as a "living sacrifice" producing a clear knowledge of Gods will and how good and perfect it really is in your heart?
If not, don't despair. Find someone you trust in spiritual matters and tell them about your desire to understand more about becoming a "living sacrifice". And continue to pray for the clarity that comes from living in the perfect will of God, of being a disciple of Jesus Christ.
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